Sunday, 14 August 2016

I am not my hair*


*but it is a huge part of who I am. 

I have never felt more low in self esteem than I had the past month or so. I’ve felt so crap. And I know it’s got to do with change. Change isn't easy. Especially for a person like me. I get the same coffee order, get the same time train to work, get into bed and sleep on a specific pillow. I'm not obsessive and do embrace some spontaneity, I just, you know, like consistency. And I think this is something that spawns from laziness in all honesty because routine is easy, it's tried and tested and proven to work. So why stray? Why create disruption when it's not necessary? This is me all over. So when I stopped relaxing my hair a year ago it was a departure from my easy hair routine - wake up, brush hair and if it doesn't look presentable stick a hat on - and I was knowingly disrupting my order. But working in beauty journalism I had so much knowledge on the subject of hair products that I knew in the long run I wouldn't want to keep relaxing my hair - so by continuing to I was just putting off the inevitable, right? So I just stopped, I didn't make much over it and I wasn't planning a hair journey and big chop, I wasn't waxing lyrical about giving up the "creamy crack" I just carried on with my normal hair routine without the relaxing part. Or at least I tried to. I'd continue to straighten it after washing and treat my new texture as the "regrowth" that I used to see as the sign it was time to return to the Hairdressers. Even though I embraced the change the change didn’t embrace me. My hair was in disgusting condition, it was breaking off in excess, shedding - when I’d brush it, it was like grooming a malting cat. I was so ashamed about it I refused to go to the hairdressers as I was embarrassed by it’s condition, I was stuck in a loop. 

Cutting my hair has never been something that I’ve been into - when I was relaxing my hair I got a trim every time I got a touch up (oh look, more routine) but without the need to visit the salon I just stopped. But it was holding me back - big time. It was stunting my style, I was paralysed by the idea of styling my TWA/straggly ends so I’d just pop it in two space buns. and the next day, and the next day. And before I knew it a cute, quirky style became my new routine. It was the only thing I got down that mimicked the ease of relaxed hair. You know in Mean Girls when Regina George is like ‘sweatpants is all that fits me right now’? That was me, but replace sweatpants with space buns. And because I hated the way that my hair looked and didn’t want to go backwards (relaxing) or forwards (big chop) I was in self-inflicted limbo. It pushed every other part of my image into perspective too. I hated my hair and I couldn’t use it as a distraction from my face so I hated my face, my skin was awful, I treated myself to sweets because I wanted a pick me up… then my jeans got tighter. A new routine. 

For a person that’s so open and up front about a lot of sh*t I kind of just recoiled into myself. I was me outwardly (bubbly, seemingly happy) but I didn’t feel like I looked like myself and inside I was a whirl of anxious discontent. My Outside had affected my Inside that subsequently affected my Outside and it was a circle that needed to stop.

I made it stop. 

It was so simple - I got my hair done. I sat for 5 hours to get a style that took the morning worry out of the equation and my spirits were instantly lifted. No, but literally. My hair was considerably heavier but my spirits were like a helium balloon on a ribbon. Anyone that tells me that appearance doesn’t matter can kiss my backside, because it does. It really does. There’s a reason why they call your hair your crowning glory, because even if you don’t buy into the idea of long hair being a woman’s beauty (I don’t), hair does act as a crown. A queen is a queen always but it’s when she has that crown of jewels on her head she sits up straighter, more confidently, more gracefully, more regal. When you feel good about what’s atop of your head, you feel good about yourself. 

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Friday, 8 April 2016

ghd azores collection



ghd's are giving us all kinds of beachy feels this year with their limited edition summer stylers. The collection, which has just launched, includes two aquatic shades of the ghd V styler (marine allure, pictured, and atlantic jade) and gorgeous iridescent shade of the ghd platinum. The range is inspired by the tropicalAzores Islands and everything about the collection and the advertising makes you feel like you ought to be jetting off to a luxury island. Nothing about the stylers themselves have changed besides the colours, so if you have relatively new straighteners, then there's no need to chuck them BUT if your electricals game needs an update then these are for you!

I must say the regular ghd stylers like these aren't the best for straightening thick Afro hair, the v gold max styler and the eclipse are the best ghds for this in my experience. But what I think these are amazing for are creating form-free waves and curls. 




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Monday, 4 April 2016

Charlotte Mensah Manketti Oil Hair Care Collection


Charlotte Mensah Manketti Oil Collection, Shampoo and Conditioner, £18 each, Oil, £36

Before I started working at Blackhair I thought I knew a lot about hair but I didn't. I knew how to kind of maintain my own hair but that was about it, so when I was opened up to the world of hair products on offer, I wanted to try absolutely everything! 

Fast-forward three years and I'm extremely set in my ways - while I'll give new things a try I tend to always go back to the same products that I know work perfectly for my hair. So when I received this new collection from Charlotte Mensah I knew I'd love them but would inevitably use them once and then go back to my usuals. But that has not been the case. 

If you don't know already Charlotte Mensah is an Afro hairdressing heavy-hitter. She has two British Hairdressing Awards under her belt as well as three Hair Magazine Awards. She is awesome, so of course her range was going to be. Shunning the 'in' oils to enrich her products, Charlotte chose the relatively unknown Manketti oil for her range which is full of Vitamin E and high in polyunsaturated fatty acid that acts as a barrier to help prevent moisture from escaping from the hair for longer. Six years went into creating these products and you can really tell, not only with the products themselves, but with the bottle and the design. 

My hero product of the range is the Manketti Oil, (£36). It's very hydrating so you only need a very small amount, say 2-3 drops, which is easy to measure out with the pipet. So while it is definitely a luxury product with a higher price tag, the size of the bottle means that I literally cannot see myself running out of this within a year! 

I'm always dubious recommending products I love to people with natural Afro hair as mine still has relaxed ends - but my colleague Joy (who does indeed have a head full of coils) is raving about the range too so you can believe that it's suitable for all Afro hair types! 

Available at charlottemensah.com

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Wednesday, 13 May 2015

Tips for relaxed Afro hair - Video


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Thursday, 1 January 2015

Happy New Hair Habits


You're always reading about habits to break around this time of year so I thought it would be a nice change to talk about habits to keep up - so here are four for you (glen coco) to keep for fab locks whatever your hair type!

(p.s I have a video allll about this over on Youtube if you fancy a gander - it's HERE )


1 Wash your hair when it feels dirty

Sounds obvious right? But there are sooo many articles with contradicting information. Hairdressing ledge, Philip Kingsley says do it everyday in his book, while others maintain that it's much better to limit it to a couple of times a week and us with Afro hair are like 'Pffft, every 10 days is fine for us.' The bottom line is that only you know when your hair feels like it needs washing - it's not for the good of others, like hand-washing per se. 



2. Get trimming 

Yup, sorry this is the one that'll always worm it's way into any form of haircare advice. Believe me I was not a trimming advocate. I wanted long hair, why was I going to trim it? But with age comes wisdom, and I can now see that my longish straggly-ass hair wasn't half as healthy as my regularly trimmed mid-length hair is now. The concept is easy: trim hair, hair becomes healthier, healthy hair equals growth. Snip snip, ladies, snip snip.



3. Moisturise, all day erryday

All hair needs moisture throughout the year. European hair needs light moisture that won't laden down their locks and Afro hair needs richer moisturising products to penetrate our coarser mane. But the bottom line is that we always need it, not more or less in summer or winter. Sure we may need the addition of products for different elements and weather conditions, but the core need to be moisturised is ever present, people.



4. And finally, use protection 

This should be the final line of advice for all walks of life and haircare is no exception. Tell me, dear friends, how would your skin fear if you lay out and allowed the sun to blaze down on you at 200c degrees without any kind of sun protection? Not great? Nah you'd burn to a crisp and die. The only reason your hair doesn't singe at the first stroke of a hot tool is because it's already dead! To prevent the hair from looking and feeling dull and lacklustre, just spritz on a little heat protectant when damp and you'll thank yourself when your hair isn't breaking off in chunks. 



Follow these habits for the next 365 days (and beyond) and you'll be rewarded with healthy, shiny hair (sorry, no money back guarantee)!

Happy New Year!

Love Keeks xo


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Sunday, 14 September 2014

From Intern to Journo...


Other than a vague dream of becoming some kind of performer when I was tiny (I used to sit in the middle of the living room and make my parents interview me as another person) and a foray into fashion designing (I was a keen stenciller), I’ve pretty much always wanted to be some kind of writer. My mum told me recently that when I was really little I’d ask her and my dad to read the newspaper to me until I feel asleep, I’d get lost in book after book and having one of my primary school poems published in a book when I was eight was one of the best moments in life. Ever.

As I got older, I started reading teen magazines like Sugar and Bliss (RIP to both) and became obsessed with the idea of magazine writing. That was when I was about 12 and it was ever since then I knew I would become a journalist. There are so many different sectors of journalism and on top of that so many ways to get into each of them; none of the pals I’ve made in the industry got into it in the same way, which can seem daunting for someone looking to break in but also exciting as you can kind of find your own way.

So below, as a homage to the fact that I’m entering into my 12 month in my career (wuuut?), I’ve broken down what I’ve learned on my route in to the industry, and hopefully it may help any aspiring fashion + beauty journos working out their own path.


Where it started, work experience at Sugar Magazine.

- Start NOW... work experience
My first work experience stint was at 14. Here in the UK you have to do a week of work experience during Year 9 and I was adamant I was doing mine at Sugar magazine - it was my favourite teen read and I knew it was the perfect place for me the spend my week drinking up understanding on how the industry works. I wrote, emailed and called persistently for about a month until it was finally confirmed. That week I was literally beaming from ear to ear everyday, making my way to the offices in Marble Arch. I would throw myself into every task and I literally could have cried going back to school. I’d definitely recommend doing work experience when you can; the younger you start the longer you have to work out the direction you want to go. Work experience is great because it’s for a much shorter period than interning so you can try different places. A Smörgåsbord of opportunities if you will.

- No one is indispensable.. But try
When I was at sixth form I interned at Hair for a couple of weeks, ironic since I now work there! The Hair offices were on the same floor as Marie Claire and Instyle, and when an intern fell sick I was brought in to be Instyle's features intern for a week. I did every task diligently (a low point was definitely haulin' a ridiculously large Ikea rug from the magazine offices down a million miles to the loading bay - 'twas not fun) until they ran out of tasks for me on the features desk… and the beauty desk, so I would wander into the fashion cupboard and help the interns there do the returns. Four days in I fell ill. Like really really ill; temperature, shaking, everything. I was lugging stacks of the new magazine to the post room when the editorial assistant asked me if I was ok - I was in my cardigan and jacket when everyone else was in short sleeves and normal summer attire. I confessed and she was lovely, sending me home and said I didn't need to come in for my last day (probs for the good of the office) - but I did and they gave me a little bag of goodies for my interning prowess.

What did I learned? Push through the illness!! No just kidding. If you get sick stay away from offices with air con where you risk infecting everyone else! What I actually learned is to never think your tasks are done. It's easy to think that once your set tasks are done, you're done, but finding things to help out with will set you apart from other interns and show that you actually care.


- Make friends!
Journalism is all about communication, so making contacts is essential and every advice book, blog and article will tell you that, but what some don't hone in on is the social aspect. I think it's all well and good exchanging business cards and calling somebody a contact, but one of the things I've found is being sociable is crucial. You want people to think of you and want you around their launches and events because those events or the people at those events are what lead to stories and more contacts. I used to (and still kind of do) dislike going to press events alone but doing so forces you to talk to new people and each time I've met someone new!


- Uni/no Uni/ Uni?
I went to Uni in 2010 and studied English Literature with Creative Writing. Even though I knew I wanted to be a journalist I also knew I didn't want to study journalism. I wanted to work in a very particular sector and I knew that studying journalism I'd only be able to do that for a very small percentage of the course. I figured that English Lit would be a fun course for me as I love to read and analyse and doing a minor in creative writing would sate my urge to write.

I know people's reason for going to Uni are different, but mine was 90% to learn, 8% to get new stationary every semester and 2% social. I didn't get a "proper" uni experience in regards to going out all the time and joining societies, but I'm ok with that and I've made new friends through different ways.
I can't advise anyone wanting to be a journalist in the field I'm in (women's lifestyle) to go or not to go to Uni but what I can tell you is that the majority of other candidates applying for the same entry level jobs as you will have a degree so you really need to be a shining beacon of life experience to even be considered if you don't go.

- Intern... Then intern some more...
Once I did my short stint at Notebook, the Sunday Mirror magazine, I was like the herp, there was no getting rid of me. I would come back again and again during Easter and summer break for two years. After Uni I returned again, vowing to stay forever! I did the usual stuff like transcribing and researching but also, having becoming a sort of honorary Notebooker if you like, went to press events on behalf of the mag and secured my first celebrity interview. Going back time after time helped them get to know me and know my ability and when I finally left for good I knew I made friends and contacts for life.

- Blog blog blog
My blog helped to get me my job. When I went for my interview I brought along two pages I did in Notebook and my three favourite blog posts; that was my portfolio. My blog was my only real outlet to waffle on about the things I loved talking about like fashion, beauty and baking so it was a good representation of what I was capable of and also showed that I had a real passion for writing and creating content.

- If you don’t know you better ask somebody… or, you know, google it.
I would literally say yes to any task I was given, no contemplation. Even if I had no clue how to do it, I'd say yes and then worry about figuring it out after. One instance was when I was at Sugar and they handed me pictures of two celebs and asked me to go on to Oxford Street at lunchtime (aka hell on Earth) and do some vox pops. Vox pops!? What the heck were vox pops? I googled it straight away and hotfooted it outside to ask random tourists which celeb's look they liked better. Another time was at Notebook when Mel, the editor, asked if I could fax something for her. I'd manage to get through my entire life so far without sending a fax. It was just me, her and Karen, a freelancer, in the office and have never felt such inner turmoil but I figured it out. It’s infinitely better to be the ‘no problem’ girl than the ‘I don’t know how to do that’ girl.


- Just apply
Apply apply apply! When I applied for my current job I was convinced I wasn't even in with a chance but maybe I would get an interview and then when they tell me they've gone with someone else I could ask for feedback for my next interview because this was my first one. The only other times I'd been interviewed was for my bar job at The Emirates Stadium - and that was in a group and for a sports writing programme. It was my first graduate job interview, and I got it. Don't let people tell you that your prospects are bleak and you'll have to go for 124.2 interviews and won't get a job etc... Of course it can be tough but everyone's course to his or her career is different and a little optimism didn't hurt anybody.

Love Keeks xo 



My first cover interview


Organising the Hair Awards

Fun at work shoots

Attending press events with my lovely Editor, Keysha

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